How nipple sucking binds partners, makes you feel so good and also helps induces labor

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By Prof. Raphael Nyarkotey Obu

Why nipple-sucking feel so good, binds Partners & helps 

induces labor 

From studies, I found that despite popular belief, stimulating your clitoris, vagina, or 

penis is not the only way to have an orgasm. Nipples are rich with a network of nerve 

endings, the tenderness of which varies from person to person and from day to day. Nipple 

play can also bring you to that big O. And there are so many ways you can stimulate your nipples 

to make that orgasm explosive. Experiment with techniques, find out what makes you feel 

good, and just have fun! (Prof. Nyarkotey)

Female nipples come in all shapes, colors, and sizes; people of every gender have them. 

Emily A. Klein(2019) a great science writer notes that for pregnant and lactating mothers, 

nipples can provide access to nourishment for a breastfeeding baby. Additionally, 

the nipples are highly sensitive and responsive to stimulation, making nipple-sucking a 

great way to give and receive pleasure for folks of all genders.

Nipple anatomy

One article by O. Team(2019) explained that with regards to the nipple it has two 

structures: The nipple itself, which is a raised area with tiny holes that connect it to 

deeper tissues in the breast, and the areola, the relatively flat area of skin surrounding 

the nipple. The nipple and areola are usually darker in color than the surrounding skin 

and have an irregular surface. Most people have two nipples, but it’s fairly common to

have one or more extra nipples.

Why does nipple-sucking feel so good?

Nipples are made to be sucked on: During breastfeeding, tiny holes in the nipples allow 

milk to flow through ducts from milk-producing glands in the breast tissue. In response 

to a baby’s sucking, the pituitary gland of a breastfeeding parent releases the powerful 

hormone oxytocin, encouraging milk to flow and promoting bonding and caregiving 

behavior.

The O. Team(2019) article further explained that even in those who are not breastfeeding, 

sucking such nipples can stimulate the release of oxytocin, which also occurs during 

sexual arousal and orgasm. 

They also held that oxytocin, which is also known as “the love hormone” has been found 

to reduce stress and increase sensations of trust and well-being. Because nipple sucking

and oxytocin release are linked, nipple sucking may help to build feelings of closeness 

and intimacy with your partner. This is interesting for men to draw closer to their women 

by sucking their breasts.

As well as encouraging oxytocin to flow, the nipples are highly sensitive to touch and 

temperature and often become erect in response to sexual arousal. The nipples don’t have 

erectile tissue that fills with blood like the clitoris or penis; instead, they get hard due to 

the contraction (pulling together) of specialized muscles below the skin, similar to what 

happens when you get goosebumps(O. Team, 2019).

Nipple Stimulation and Labor

One study by Demirel et al. (2015) found that Nipple stimulation to induce labor is a safe 

and natural method of massaging nipples to release oxytocin, thereby increasing levels 

of the hormone that leads to labor. The study found that methodical nipple stimulation 

may be effective for starting contractions at full-term pregnancy, although there is limited 

research to prove its benefits. Another previous study(Chaudhry et al. 2011) found that 

50% of the postpartum participants indicated they tried this or other non-medical ways

to induce labor. 

In pregnancy terms, when we say nipple stimulation, it means manually massaging the 

nipples, using a breast pump, or having another person (a nursing child or a partner) 

suck on the nipples to stimulate them. This works by increasing levels of the hormone 

oxytocin. Oxytocin is produced in a part of the brain called the hypothalamus and is 

secreted by the pituitary gland. Oxytocin stimulates the uterus to contract and begin 

labor. Oxytocin also increases the production of hormones called prostaglandins, which 

further increases contractions.

The synthetic version of oxytocin, Pitocin, is frequently administered to pregnant people 

to induce or help progress the labor process. The increase in oxytocin from nipple 

stimulation can cause contractions that may kick-start labor if the pregnant person's body 

is prepared to give birth.

Efficacy of Nipple stimulation

Demirel et al.(2015) study found that nipple stimulation appeared to shorten the length 

of labor and decrease the instances of cesarean sections. The study involved 390 pregnant 

participants and divided participants into three groups:

 Nipple stimulation

 Uterine stimulation

 No stimulation

Despite inconclusive evidence, many healthcare providers recommend it as an option for 

their clients who are full-term. A recent study (Hodgson and Latka, 2020) used 350 

registered midwives in British Columbia and Ontario, Canada, and found that 96% of 

those surveyed had advised clients to use nipple stimulation as a way of releasing the 

hormone oxytocin, and 80% believed nipple stimulation to be effective. Ninety-two 

percent of the respondents named labor augmentation as their reason for suggesting 

nipple stimulation. 

Likelihood of Success

One article by Heather Jones, (2022) provided this highlights the reasons medical workers 

recommend nipple stimulation especially when the woman gets to her time: 

 The cervix is favorable: Meaning that it is beginning to soften, thin, and open

The Bishop score is eight or higher: A tool used to predict how soon a person is 

likely to go into labor based on measures found during a pelvic examination

 Braxton Hicks contractions: Practice contractions, not labor contractions

 The baby "drops": Moves down lower into the pelvic cavity

 Show/bloody show: An increase in vaginal discharge, losing the mucus plug, 

sometimes brownish or pinkish

Natural nipple stimulation such as erotic nipple play (licking, sucking, fondling, etc.) can 

also stimulate the release of oxytocin. It's also a nice way to connect with your partner 

and is generally safe for pregnant women. However, artificial methods such as using a 

breast pump and others are discouraged in pregnancy though some safety studies 

attached if performed at 40weeks of pregnancy. 

Nipple sucking produces a sensational orgasm 

A recent study (Tahir and Mastalgia, 2022) explained that a nipple orgasm may feel even 

more intense during mensuration. This is because the hormonal changes during 

menstruation can increase breast sensitivity and tenderness, which may heighten arousal. 

Additionally, when your nipples are stimulated, they shoot off sparks in the genital 

sensory cortex. This is the same area of the brain that’s aroused by vaginal or clitoral 

stimulation (Annamarya Scaccia, 2022). Due to the nature of the nipples, Emily A. Klein's 

(2019) article suggests that the pleasure some people feel when having their nipples 

sucked is the same as that of direct genital stimulation — some people have even reported 

that they can have an orgasm just from having their nipples played with.

6 nipple-sucking tips

Just in case you are interested in incorporating nipple-sucking into your repertoire — or 

if you’d like to expand on your technique — there are many ways to get creative and 

promote greater pleasure for your partner and yourself according to the O. Team.

1. Be anatomically aware.

Nipples come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. They can be big, small, dark, 

pale, puffy, flat, or protruding (sticking out). Some people have inverted nipples—

instead of protruding, their nipples are tucked inside the breast, appearing “inside-out.”

It can be helpful to pay attention to your partner’s unique anatomy: Some people have 

highly sensitive nipples and like a very gentle touch, while others prefer more intense 

sensations.

Those who have had breast or chest surgery, such as breast reduction or mastectomy 

(removal of the breast), sometimes experience a change in nipple sensitivity/ Particularly 

those who have experienced a medical procedure involving their nipples, chest, or 

breasts, make sure to check in about what nipple sucking means to them and how it feels.

Some people who are lactating (breastfeeding) experience changes in the way they 

perceive their breasts and nipples, as well as the way that they feel about nipple-sucking 

in a sexual context. If your partner is lactating, take some time to explore both of your 

feelings around nipple play.

2. Communicate.

When building a mutually enjoyable relationship, communication is key. Before you 

experiment with nipple play, ask about your partner’s preferences and boundaries.

3. Set the mood.

Setting the mood, or creating a sexy and relaxing ambiance, can help to maximize 

pleasure. There are a variety of sensual elements that can heighten the mood, including 

dimmed lights or lit candles. You might also consider adding in some background music 

or wearing something that makes you feel confident. It can be a lot of fun to explore and 

experiment with the setting — though it often takes trial and error to optimize what feels 

best for you and your partner.

4. Experiment with intensity.

Switching up the intensity of nipple sucking can be a great way to discover what your 

partner likes, as well as keep things interesting. Start by sucking softly, then increase the 

level of suction or alternate between a firm and gentle. Keep in mind that what feels 

gentle to one person can be unbearably intense for someone else: Always check in with 

your partner to see whether what you’re doing feels good and whether they’d prefer you 

to back off or increase the intensity.

5. Use your tongue.

The tongue is perfectly built for bringing pleasure to your partner during nipple-sucking. 

You can make gentle circles around the areola with the tip of your tongue, use it to 

stimulate the nipple itself, or even lick the entire breast or pectoral area to increase 

anticipation. You can also play with the erect tip of the nipple with your tongue, circling 

or flicking it while you suck.

6. Change the temperature.

Just as variations in pressure can increase pleasurable sensations during nipple-sucking, 

changing the temperature can feel great. Try taking a sip of warm tea before taking your

partner’s nipple into your mouth. Or, try popping an ice cube into your mouth to 

instantly harden your partner’s nipple and create a delightful shiver.

7. Tease with your teeth.

For some people, nipple-sucking feels even better when the teeth get (gently!) involved. 

Try softly raking your teeth from the base of the nipple to the tip. For those who prefer a 

little pain with their pleasure, nibbling and biting the nipples can feel amazing. Whenever 

you use your teeth, take great care to avoid biting too hard—and always ask for your 

partner’s feedback to make sure what you’re doing is more “Wow!” than “Ow!”

Nipple-sucking can be a great way to enhance sex, or a satisfying, intimate activity in its 

own right. Experiment with a variety of techniques to discover what feels best for you 

and your partner. If you’re new to nipple sucking (or even if you’re not) go slowly, check 

in often, and enjoy the experience.

The bottom line

From studies, I found that despite popular belief, stimulating your clitoris, vagina, or 

penis is not the only way to have an orgasm. Nipples are rich with a network of nerve 

endings, the tenderness of which varies from person to person and from day to day. 

Nipple play can also bring you to that big O. And there are so many ways you can 

stimulate your nipples to make that orgasm explosive. Experiment with techniques, find 

out what makes you feel good, and just have fun

NB:

Prof. Nyarkotey has strict sourcing guidelines and relies on peer-reviewed studies, academic 

research institutions, and medical associations to justify his write-ups. My articles are for 

educational purposes and do not serve as Medical advice for Treatment. I aim to educate the public 

about evidence-based scientific Naturopathic Therapies. 

The writer is a Professor of Naturopathic Healthcare, Medical and science writer, 

President, of Nyarkotey College of Holistic Medicine & Technology (NUCHMT)/African 

Naturopathic Foundation. He is also an Honorary Professor, Vinnystia State 

Pedagogical University, Ukraine. E-mail: collegeofholisticmedicine@gmail.com. For more 

information, contact: Stephanie(PRO)on 0244433553

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